UNIVERSITY PARK, Pa. — A few hours after the last of a handful of college campus visits in 2019, Penn State School of Visual Arts alumnus Brian Kappel was with his wife, Michele, and their daughter, Emma, in a Detroit, Michigan, airport when he decided to ask her the question he had been purposely avoiding.
“OK, so if right now you would say yes to anywhere, where is it?” he asked.
It’s an innocent question for most parents in similar situations, but for a proud Penn Stater with generational family ties to the University, and a dad who starts football Saturdays by blasting “Fight On, State,” it’s anything but simple.
Brian graduated from Penn State in 1998; his dad, Bill, in 1970; his mom, Carol, the same year; and his sister, Suzanne, in 1995. There are other ties as well, like his aunt who earned a master’s degree at Penn State, but Emma was a question mark.
“She had the best poker face I’ve ever seen,” Brian said. “We took her all over the place and really gave her carte blanche to find ‘her town.’”
As the three toured schools across the country, the reality of Emma choosing another school was setting in and while, of course, she would have had full support from her mom and dad, Happy Valley was on their minds.
“It’s Penn State,” Emma told her dad in Detroit.
The Kappels celebrated in the terminal and in the fall of 2019, Emma became a third-generation Penn Stater and followed in her dad’s footsteps by choosing a major in the College of Arts and Architecture.