ABINGTON, Pa. — Their personal and professional lives have placed Glenn Sterner and Erin Gallagher at the forefront of battling the stigma surrounding mental illness, substance use, addiction and vulnerable populations. The duo is the driving force behind the Oct. 12 performance of This Is My Brave-The Show at Penn State Abington, which features original performances by community members who have suffered from the impact of stigma.
Sterner, assistant professor of criminal justice at Abington, and Gallagher, the executive director of This Is My Brave Inc., recently sat down to share their motivations and advice for managing stigma and how live performances are an effective way to jump start difficult conversations.
Question: How did you arrive at a place where your work centers on reducing stigma?
Erin Gallagher: I lost my son, Jay, to suicide in 2016. We had had conversations in our family about hard things including suicide, but we never believed it could happen to us. He had not clearly expressed signs of suffering. He wasn’t in treatment, and it was stigma that held him back from asking for help. My son was a high achiever, and we don’t often see examples of people who are thriving with mental health conditions. People who live with mental health conditions often look like you and me, and they seem to be living well despite their experiences.
I met Jennifer Marshall, the founder of This Is My Brave, and she told me about the work she was doing to break down stigma. As soon as I saw a This Is My Brave performance, I knew this was where I wanted to spend my energy for the rest of my life. We know stigma stops people from asking for help, and every time I share my family’s story, it makes a difference. I’m grateful that it opens conversations and makes connections possible.
Glenn Sterner: I was at a substance use conference, and another researcher wanted to talk to community members in a coffee shop. At the time the opioid crisis was fairly new to public discussion, and a woman came up afterward. She said, “My son is a Penn State student, but he is now in the criminal justice system because he was running pills across state lines to feed his substance use disorder. I don't have anyone to talk to. I can't tell my friends because they would think badly of us, and our family wouldn’t trust him. We have this dark stain on us.” This random person poured her heart out to me, and so I decided this has to be something that I take on.
I worked with support from the Independence Blue Cross Foundation and the Pennsylvania Department of Drug and Alcohol Programs to start the Story Powered Initiative, which gives everyday people a platform to share their experiences and dispel myths. Later, I attended a This Is My Brave show in Utah, and I realized there was a direct connection to the Story Powered Initiative. It felt absolutely natural to work together.
Personally, I identify as part of the LGBTQ community, and I know how it feels not to be respected and to have laws that say I don’t have rights. When I came out to my family, I wasn’t allowed to eat at the dinner table anymore because of the stigma surrounding AIDS. I have younger siblings and cousins who are gay and transgender so we stuck together, and I have a phenomenal relationship with them. You can have difficult conversations, and it’s possible to break down stigma by making sure you are seen. I now have a fabulous husband, and I’m able to marry legally. The arc of my story is to let people know that life is not fair, but opportunities are attached to it. Don’t allow isolation to persist and make connections.